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Parenting

No matter how old your kids are, you will always be a parent. It’s a lifelong job.

Some kids leave the nest easily. Others struggle.

Part of emptying our nest may involve processing and moving past painful parenting.  Been there. Done that. Got the broken heart to prove it. But life moves on. You CAN have a fulfilling life even if your relationships with your older children are painful, or they are broken and troubled.

This is a time to reflect on motherhood and how it has changed us.

Are you thinking about grandchildren? May we all be blessed with them. Let’s be Good Grannies to them.

Serve one another in love

Kids and Books

My last child turned 20! No more teens in the nest!

 My Wise Son

Fighting children

God pursues His beloved children

The gift of challenges

Communication skills: Actively listening to your child

Embracing imperfection as a gift

How seeking perfection harms you and your children

How a young mom embraces imperfection

Teaching your kids to accept imperfection

Grace space, or judgment zone?

Teach your kids the value of giving this Christmas

Paying Allowances: To pay or not to pay?

Summer Reading Program

Feeling like a failure?

Are you inviting chaos?

Do I have to like my kid today?

Got kids who fight?

5 strategies for helping siblings get along

Here’s the solution for naughty school children

 

Talking about estranged adult children and some healing advice

11 ways to deal with having an estranged adult child

How estranged mothers can find acceptance and healing

How to deal with having an estranged adult child

Pity party days: What’s a mom to do when her heart is pierced?

5 things NOT to say to a mom in pain

When your adult child breaks your heart

My child is estranged

Anywhere but home: The motto of the wayward child

Mama, it’s going to be OK

Opening a vein: Talking about family trouble

When parenting is painful

How does a mom get through difficult times?

All you need is love

Searching for my new normal

Is your child discouraged?


Parenting Adult Children: 3 Decisions to Help Guide Your Conversations

Should you support your adult child?

Should adult children pay rent?

 

 

What Fall is Like in the Emptying Nest



Days of Small Things

Kids and Books

April Fool’s Day tricks to play on your child

How seeking perfection harms you and your children

How a young mom embraces imperfection

Teaching your kids to accept imperfection

Grace space, or judgment zone?

Defined by cancer?

 

Mom, get out of your frumpy clothes!

A mom’s journey


The High Price of Motherhood

So this is real mom life today

Where are you living?

More Mom Stuff

7 Things Mom really wants for Mothers Day

Numb Mum

Motherhood and the Mind

Maternal Depression

Mom Life: My baby is 18

Valuing motherhood: Why I went from full-time lawyer to full-time mom

Valuing motherhood: Becoming a stay-at-home mom

Valuing motherhood: The realistic side of full-time motherhood

Valuing motherhood: Attachment theory

Valuing motherhood: Don’t need daycare

3 things moms do to mess up Christmas

Mama, it’s going to be OK

Mom Moving Forward

What do you love about your Mom?

A motherless mother on Mother’s Day

Reigniting Mom: Finding your mojo after mothering

Reigniting Mom: Motivating Your Mojo After MotheringHow does a mom get through difficult times?

A motherless mother on Mother’s Day

Perspective on Mothering

Big Picture/Little Picture

Mom Pain

What to do when mothering is a mess!

One of those days

Are you a tired mama? Are you being listened to?

Lost and Found at Christmas

3 things moms do to mess up Christmas

For this child have I prayed

Feeling like a failure?

The Speed of Time

Swiftly flow the years

Outsourcing Life

 

 

 

A mom’s journey

Love your family

Mothering is a divine appointment

Abraham Lincoln

Eleanor Roosevelt

Pearl S. Buck on Mothering


 

Things that are wonderful about small children
What will you do with the grandkids?

 

 

Is adoption right for you?

The facts about adoption

What are the basic requirements if I want to adopt?

7 wrong reasons to adopt

6 things I’ve learned from adopting my children

Considering child adoption?

International child adoption

Child Adoption Resource Guide

Child Adoption: Basic requirements

2 Free Child Adoption Resources

Reconnected

November is National Adoption Month

 

 

The gift of challenges

Special Needs? Yes, you can homeschool!

Special Needs: ADHD

Special needs learning: Starting to figure it out

Special Needs: When homeschooling does not go smoothly

Special Needs: Every family looks different

Special needs: Is it legal to homeschool?

Special Needs: Is homeschooling the best?

Celebrating cerebrodiversity!

Special Homeschoolers

Heads Up! Homeschooling the challenging child

Special Needs Teaching Product Reviews

 

 

Kids and Books

How to beat your homeschooling fears

What I learned from homeschooling my kids

Homeschooling with Toddlers

Homeschooling 101: A guide to getting started

Homeschool Moms: How homeschool Dads can really help

Homeschooling: Why homeschool?

Special Needs: Is homeschooling the best?

Preschool Book List: Books for snowy days

A homeschooler responds to Trump’s voucher proposal – meh

There are no banned books in homeschools!

Christmas gift guide for homeschool moms

What about the little ones? Teaching-multi ages in the homeschool

Signs along the homeschooling journey

Feeling like a failure?

Who says homeschooled kids are nerds?

End of the year homeschool blues

Federal Tax Credits for Homeschoolers: Thanks, but no thanks

 

Handling irregular chores with kids

Teaching Life Skills for Kids

Life Skills for Kids: Children and chores

Life Skills for Kids: The importance of teaching life skillls

Life Skills: Kids and allowances

Paying allowances: To pay or not to pay

Life Skills List

Life Skills Checklists

Life Skills: Resume mistakes


 

Kids and Books

Merriment is Messy!

March Madness: Fun things to do with your kids until the weather warms

Family activities for April and May

Keeping kids busy with summer activities

Father’s Day DIY

Kids summer activities roundup

Easy Fall DIY Decor

A Dozen Easy DIY Halloween Costumes

Preschool Book List: Books for snowy days

Simple, Fun Kids Activities for Winter

Easy Easter Craft: Easter Egg Tree

Father’s Day DIY Gifts

Fall crafts and family fun

Pumpkin decorating ideas

Stress-free Halloween party planning

Low cost ideas for family fun!

Valentine’s Day Crafts for Older Kids

Valentine’s Day gifts for your kids

Fall crafts and family fun

Pumpkin decorating ideas

Stress-free Halloween party planning

Easy Thanksgiving crafts for kids

 

 

 

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Hi! I’m Christine!

It’s Never Too Late to Rewrite Your Story

If you’re standing at a crossroads—wondering where the “you” you used to know went—you are not alone.

Maybe you spent years pouring yourself into your family, homeschooling, raising kids with big needs and even bigger hearts.
Maybe you’re navigating a broken marriage, facing an empty nest that feels a lot emptier than you ever imagined, or grieving distance from your adult children.

You may be asking yourself: What happened to the life I dreamed of?
What happens now?

Here’s the truth:
It’s never too late to rewrite your story.

No matter the detours or disappointments, there is still hope.
There are still beautiful chapters ahead, waiting for you to write them.


What You’ll Find Here

Real Mom Life is a place where you’ll find:

  • Real talk about motherhood, marriage, divorce, and all the messy parts in between

  • Honest reflections on faith, family, healing, and hope

  • Encouragement for the woman who feels forgotten—or who forgot herself along the way

  • Inspiration to rebuild, rediscover, and live with purpose, passion, and yes—a little pizzazz

  • A reminder that your story isn’t over—and the next part might just be the best yet


My Story

Hi, I’m Christine—a marriage and motherhood survivor, a recovering perfectionist, and a woman determined to live the second half of life with purpose, passion, and a whole lot of pizzazz.

I spent decades doing what many women do: pouring myself into my family, raising children (some with big needs and even bigger hearts), homeschooling, navigating a long and complicated marriage, and trying to be everything for everyone. Somewhere in all of that, I lost parts of myself I didn’t even realize were gone.

During those intense years of deep mothering, I also wrote seven books for major Christian publishers about parenting, adoption, and homeschooling. I spoke at conferences, encouraged other moms, and tried to offer wisdom from the trenches.

And then—everything I held dear was challenged.

My kids started struggling in ways I couldn’t fix.
My marriage unraveled.
And so did the life I had so carefully built.

Divorce, the empty nest, the ache of adult children who didn’t launch quite the way I’d hoped—it all collided at once.

Sound familiar?

But here’s the good news:
It’s never too late to rewrite your story.

Now in my late 60s, I’m building a rich, meaningful life—not despite the hard chapters, but because of them.
I started dating again (and got married in May 2025!), I’m working full-time in my career as a criminal lawyer, and I’m dreaming bigger than ever.
I’m a woman of faith who’s walked through the fire—and found new life on the other side.


Let’s Walk This Road Together

If you’re wondering what’s next after the life you planned didn’t turn out the way you hoped, you’re in the right place.
We don’t have to shrink or settle.
We get to rise, reclaim, and sparkle.

So pour a cup of coffee (or something stronger), and let’s keep going, together.

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