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5 Signs He’s Worth a Second Date (And 5 That Say Run)

August 20, 2026 By Christine Field Leave a Comment

If you’re back in the dating pool after a divorce or a loss, there’s a decent chance you don’t fully trust your own judgment anymore. That’s not a personal failing — it’s the natural aftermath of having believed in someone who turned out to be wrong for you. The good news is you don’t need…

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Feeling Alive Again After Divorce or Empty Nest

Most of what gets written about reinvention after 50 focuses on the quiet part — the journaling, the self-reflection, the identity questions asked alone at a kitchen table with a cup of tea going cold. That work matters, and it's the necessary first ...

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You Don’t Need All the Answers. You Need a Direction.

You've done the work. You've named the rescue pattern. You've started saying no without writing a paragraph of apology first. The guilt still visits, but it doesn't move in and stay anymore. And then, in the quiet that finally shows up where the ...

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The Marriage & Motherhood Survivor Method

Over the last few weeks, we've talked about the distance of an adult child pulling away, the grief of motherhood not looking like you pictured, and the boundaries that protect your peace without ending a relationship. If you've been following along, ...

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Crisis-Proof Boundaries: Protect Your Peace

Somewhere along the way, a lot of us absorbed a quiet rule: keeping the peace is the highest form of love. Say yes even when you mean no. Let the comment slide again. Show up, smooth it over, don't make it a thing. For years, that rule can feel like ...

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When Motherhood Hurts: The Grief Nobody Warned You About

Nobody hands you a manual for the grief of motherhood not turning out the way you pictured. We prepare for labor, for sleepless nights, for tantrums and teenage years. Nobody prepares us for the ache of realizing, decades in, that the closeness we ...

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Best Books About Estranged Adult Children: Which One Is Right for Your Story?

If you're reading this, chances are you didn't go looking for this topic — it found you. One day you had a relationship with your son or daughter, and the next you're staring at a silent phone, replaying every conversation, wondering what you ...

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It’s Never Too Late to Rewrite Your Story

If you’re standing at a crossroads—wondering where the “you” you used to know went—you are not alone.

Maybe you spent years pouring yourself into your family, homeschooling, raising kids with big needs and even bigger hearts.
Maybe you’re navigating a broken marriage, facing an empty nest that feels a lot emptier than you ever imagined, or grieving distance from your adult children.

You may be asking yourself: What happened to the life I dreamed of?
What happens now?

Here’s the truth:
It’s never too late to rewrite your story.

No matter the detours or disappointments, there is still hope.
There are still beautiful chapters ahead, waiting for you to write them.


What You’ll Find Here

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  • Real talk about motherhood, marriage, divorce, and all the messy parts in between

  • Honest reflections on faith, family, healing, and hope

  • Encouragement for the woman who feels forgotten—or who forgot herself along the way

  • Inspiration to rebuild, rediscover, and live with purpose, passion, and yes—a little pizzazz

  • A reminder that your story isn’t over—and the next part might just be the best yet


My Story

Hi, I’m Christine—a marriage and motherhood survivor, a recovering perfectionist, and a woman determined to live the second half of life with purpose, passion, and a whole lot of pizzazz.

I spent decades doing what many women do: pouring myself into my family, raising children (some with big needs and even bigger hearts), homeschooling, navigating a long and complicated marriage, and trying to be everything for everyone. Somewhere in all of that, I lost parts of myself I didn’t even realize were gone.

During those intense years of deep mothering, I also wrote seven books for major Christian publishers about parenting, adoption, and homeschooling. I spoke at conferences, encouraged other moms, and tried to offer wisdom from the trenches.

And then—everything I held dear was challenged.

My kids started struggling in ways I couldn’t fix.
My marriage unraveled.
And so did the life I had so carefully built.

Divorce, the empty nest, the ache of adult children who didn’t launch quite the way I’d hoped—it all collided at once.

Sound familiar?

But here’s the good news:
It’s never too late to rewrite your story.

Now in my late 60s, I’m building a rich, meaningful life—not despite the hard chapters, but because of them.
I started dating again (and got married in May 2025!), I’m working full-time in my career as a criminal lawyer, and I’m dreaming bigger than ever.
I’m a woman of faith who’s walked through the fire—and found new life on the other side.


Let’s Walk This Road Together

If you’re wondering what’s next after the life you planned didn’t turn out the way you hoped, you’re in the right place.
We don’t have to shrink or settle.
We get to rise, reclaim, and sparkle.

So pour a cup of coffee (or something stronger), and let’s keep going, together.

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