• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Skip to footer

Real Mom Life

  • Reinvention after 50 or 60
  • Motherhood After Mothering
  • Faith and Resilience
  • Lifestyle Reinvented
  • Empty Nest Life
  • Divorce, Healing, Moving On
  • Resources
  • Work With Me
  • Storefront

Where I come from

July 10, 2016 By Christine Field

This post may contain affiliate links.

This is where I come from.

No, we weren’t sharecroppers in the dust bowl. We were the Moriartys from the south side of Chicago. This photo is of my parents and the first five children (I am number 8) on the back porch of the house we grew up on. Out of this motley crew, one became an aerospace engineer, one a college professor in engineering, one a transportation executive and one a psychologist/high school principal.

America is still the greatest country in the world. Schooling is free (if you choose public education). A library card costs nothing. We are the most resourced country in the world.

What will YOU do with all you’ve been given?

What are your excuses if you don’t?

where I come from

And as for the last 3 kids, we became a geologist/computer programmer, a business school dean (among other callings!) and and attorney/author (me).

When I hear someone make excuses for their life based on how they were raised, I remember and give thanks for my own roots.

I am grateful that I am the keeper of the old photos. I have digitized them to share with my siblings and used them in various projects. Old photos are a treasure and a history book. If you have them, care for them and share them with the next generation.

I’m also grateful that I know what I come from. Some of my adopted kids may never know their backgrounds, beyond a few lines of information shared with social workers. They will always wonder.

What can you do to explore and preserve where you come from? A lot!

With renewed interest in genealogy, the marketplace is offering many options for research.

Ancestry.com might be your first stop. You can access vital, census and military records to begin to build your family tree. Even if you have scant information about your ancestors, you might make some delightful surprises here.

Another related service is Ancestry DNA. For $99, you submit a saliva sample and your DNA is analyzed for more than 700,000 genetic markers. You will be able to pinpoint your genetic ancestry!

Some families work together to assemble heirloom family scrapbooks. I have seen some beautiful books created that are filled with artistic flair as well as memories. To explore this, you might check out sites like www.scrapbook.com or visit your local Hobby Lobby for some hands-on inspiration.

In our family, telling our stories has been the way we have shared God’s faithfulness over the years. Looking at the memory and sharing the narrative are powerful ways to remind our kids that God has been involved in their lives from way back when, right up to the present day.

First grade

1st grade

Holy Communion

communion

Perfecting an early sneer

sneer

An early public speaking debut, wherein I recited the following:

Wee Willie Winkie runs through the town,
Upstairs and downstairs in his nightgown,
Tapping at the window and crying through the lock,
Are all the children in their beds, it’s past eight o’clock?

speaking

Filed Under: Lifestyle Reinvented Tagged With: ancestry, dna, genealogy, scrapbooking, where I come from

Previous Post: « How does a Mom get through difficult times?
Next Post: Living between the heartbeats »

Primary Sidebar

Hi! I’m Christine!

It’s Never Too Late to Rewrite Your Story

If you’re standing at a crossroads—wondering where the “you” you used to know went—you are not alone.

Maybe you spent years pouring yourself into your family, homeschooling, raising kids with big needs and even bigger hearts.
Maybe you’re navigating a broken marriage, facing an empty nest that feels a lot emptier than you ever imagined, or grieving distance from your adult children.

You may be asking yourself: What happened to the life I dreamed of?
What happens now?

Here’s the truth:
It’s never too late to rewrite your story.

No matter the detours or disappointments, there is still hope.
There are still beautiful chapters ahead, waiting for you to write them.


What You’ll Find Here

Real Mom Life is a place where you’ll find:

  • Real talk about motherhood, marriage, divorce, and all the messy parts in between

  • Honest reflections on faith, family, healing, and hope

  • Encouragement for the woman who feels forgotten—or who forgot herself along the way

  • Inspiration to rebuild, rediscover, and live with purpose, passion, and yes—a little pizzazz

  • A reminder that your story isn’t over—and the next part might just be the best yet


My Story

Hi, I’m Christine—a marriage and motherhood survivor, a recovering perfectionist, and a woman determined to live the second half of life with purpose, passion, and a whole lot of pizzazz.

I spent decades doing what many women do: pouring myself into my family, raising children (some with big needs and even bigger hearts), homeschooling, navigating a long and complicated marriage, and trying to be everything for everyone. Somewhere in all of that, I lost parts of myself I didn’t even realize were gone.

During those intense years of deep mothering, I also wrote seven books for major Christian publishers about parenting, adoption, and homeschooling. I spoke at conferences, encouraged other moms, and tried to offer wisdom from the trenches.

And then—everything I held dear was challenged.

My kids started struggling in ways I couldn’t fix.
My marriage unraveled.
And so did the life I had so carefully built.

Divorce, the empty nest, the ache of adult children who didn’t launch quite the way I’d hoped—it all collided at once.

Sound familiar?

But here’s the good news:
It’s never too late to rewrite your story.

Now in my late 60s, I’m building a rich, meaningful life—not despite the hard chapters, but because of them.
I started dating again (and got married in May 2025!), I’m working full-time in my career as a criminal lawyer, and I’m dreaming bigger than ever.
I’m a woman of faith who’s walked through the fire—and found new life on the other side.


Let’s Walk This Road Together

If you’re wondering what’s next after the life you planned didn’t turn out the way you hoped, you’re in the right place.
We don’t have to shrink or settle.
We get to rise, reclaim, and sparkle.

So pour a cup of coffee (or something stronger), and let’s keep going, together.

InstagrammailPinterestYouTubeTwitter

Meet My Husband

Visit my Amazon Influencer Storefront

www.amazon.com/shop/christine.field.7505

Search the Blog

Want to Search For Something?

Footer

Real Mom Life

Real Mom Life
PO Box 71
Piper City, IL 60959

Disclosure and Privacy Policy

Copyright 2026 Real Mom Life | Designed by TCN Design Studio