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Quick Fixes for a Melancholy Mood

February 18, 2019 By Christine Field

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Wake up in a rotten mood? Or did melancholy descend upon you during the day?

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Having a down mood from time to time is entirely normal. After all, you probably won’t feel deliriously happy with life all the time. However, when you have the blues, it can be difficult to shake it off. The good news is you have plenty of choices of things you can do to lift that melancholy mood.

Here are some ideas to discover your own mood-enhancing tips:

1. Call a friend. Although you might not be in a frame of mind to speak to someone, the fact is that a melancholic mindset offers perfect time to reach out to another person. Get hold of your sister, your best friend, or even your dad to hear about how they’re doing. A simple chat will revive you emotionally. Go ahead and pick up the phone. To continue to stew in misery will only make it last longer.

2. Talk about your feelings. It’s okay to tell someone you’re feeling down and out. Communicating will help you nail down why you might be feeling the way you feel. Getting it off your chest will help your spirits rise. Sharing a burden will make your spirits rise.

3. Ask yourself, “Why do I feel this way?” Once you determine the trigger for your blue mood, you might be able to do something about it. Approach solutions with an open mind. However, if you can’t figure out the source of your melancholy, that’s okay, too. Don’t get too hung up on something you’re unable to come to a conclusion about. Sometimes things need to marinate for a bit until a solution can emerge.

4. Notice what makes you feel better. Maybe when you’re reading a book written by your favorite author, your mood improves. Perhaps just after you arise in the morning you meditate for 10 minutes and when you’re finished, you feel more satisfied and calm. Partake in some activities that you already know, from past experience, are likely to help.

5. Consider taking a walk. When you’re feeling down, going for a walk might be just the ticket to “getting back on your feet.” If you can just get yourself moving (even if you don’t really feel like it), your body can release endorphins, the “feel good” hormones, thus, lifting your mood. Fresh air clears the mind.

6. Eat right. Make it a point to have a couple of fruits, 4 or 5 vegetables, and some protein from eggs, cheese, fish, meat, or poultry each day. We can probably all do better in this area!

7. Write it down. What are you really feeling? Label it. Why are you feeling this way? Describe it. How long have you felt these funky feelings? Jot it down. What can you do to feel better? Develop a plan and put it on paper. Journaling is a powerful exercise with tremendous benefits!

8. Give yourself a time limit. With a time limit on how long you’re allowing yourself to be in this mood, you might work harder to figure out the nagging issue and tap into your personal power to feel better. Tell yourself, “I will spend one-hour worrying about this, then I will move on with my life.” I call it timed fretting.

9. Call a professional. If you reach your time limit and still find yourself feeling melancholy, or if a deep depression lasts for more than a few weeks, consider calling a counselor, social worker, or life coach to help you get unstuck. Just making the decision to get help will take some emotional pressure off right away.

Even though you can’t always prevent developing a melancholy mood, you can apply some quick strategies to get your emotions moving in a more positive direction. Try these tips and discover your power to lift your spirits!


What do you do when you’re feeling blue? Are there certain things that instantly lift your spirits? What are things you might want to try when you’re feeling down?

 

 

Filed Under: Encouragement, Mental health Tagged With: depression, melancholy, moods

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  1. Michele

    February 19, 2019 at 9:40 pm

    If I am down I can usually get out of it fairly quickly. Music is often a mood elevator for me. I have a bad tendency to want to eat- especially carbs- when I am in a funk so I have to watch that. Stopping to think about why I am feeling that way would probably help too.

  2. Jan Wild

    February 19, 2019 at 11:22 pm

    Eating right and getting regular exercise are so important to feeling well. To be honest though some days I just have to lie on the bed or in the sun and read or watch rubbish on TV.
    Pinned

  3. Leanne | www.crestingthehill.com.au

    February 20, 2019 at 7:57 pm

    These tips are really spot on – I’m in the middle of a very traumatic work situation with a boss who is borderline psychotic. I’m about to put my notice in and then I’m going to put some of these things into practice and start some serious self-care before I end up needing your last point!
    Thanks for linking up with us at MLSTL and I’ve shared on my SM 🙂

  4. Jennifer

    February 20, 2019 at 8:28 pm

    All of these are great ideas, but I love the idea of giving myself a time-limit. I can schedule a pity-party and when it’s over, I move on.

  5. Sue from Sizzling Towards 60 & Beyond

    February 21, 2019 at 2:08 am

    So many good ideas here and most of them are simple. The hardest part is reaching out when you are feeling very low. It is easy to withdraw, not want to see anyone or do anything. If we can push through that barrier, chat with a friend or go for a walk it is surprising how much better we feel. I like that you included seeking professional help if we can’t shake ourselves out of the melancholy. there is no shame in asking for help. Thanks for sharing at #MLSTL and have a great week. xx

  6. Pat

    February 21, 2019 at 8:04 am

    Great list! One of my own is I have a list of “jolts of joy” – little things that lift my mood. So, if I’m feeling blue, I can look at that list and do something on it. I also use the identify the emotion (label it) … getting clarity of the “blueness” is so helpful for me. Never tried timed fretting however… good idea for me to add!
    Visiting from #MLSTL

  7. Christie Hawkes

    February 22, 2019 at 6:21 pm

    These are great tips, Christine. I also find that physical activity and spending time in nature always lift my mood. Have a happy weekend!

  8. Marya

    February 25, 2019 at 6:31 pm

    Good suggestions. This is about what I do myself to get myself out of a funk!

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