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Backyard Landscaping: How To Balance Shade and Sunlight

October 17, 2024 By Christine Field

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A pergola with a pyramid-shaped roof providing dappled shade for a paved concrete patio with cushioned chairs.

Every day presents different weather conditions and moods. Some days, you want to relax in the sun, and others, you want to hide from the UV rays. Discover some backyard landscaping tips in our guide: How To Balance Shade and Sunlight.

Choose a Variety of Trees

Selecting the right mix of trees creates a balanced backyard oasis. Depending on your yard’s size, incorporate one or two larger shade trees for substantial coverage. In addition to those hearty trees, consider planting smaller or ornamental trees, such as dogwoods or Japanese maples, to add visual interest without overwhelming the space.

These smaller trees can serve dual purposes, offering dappled shade and beauty with seasonal blooms. You develop an inviting atmosphere by layering trees of varying sizes and shapes.

Install a Pergola

Pergolas are more advanced today than they were in the past. While the traditional pergola features a wooden structure and stationary louvers, newer models often consist of metal materials and offer adjustable louvers. You can change the level of illumination at any time for full enjoyment of the outdoors.

Add Vertical Gardens and Trellises

Vertical gardens and trellises are great for creating shade without sacrificing space. Grow climbing plants to cast sparse shadows for gardens. A trellis and vertical garden are beautiful additions that make the space feel lush and vibrant.

Incorporate Water Features

A pool isn’t the only water feature for backyards. Items such as fountains, ponds, and waterfalls balance the yard’s microclimate. The coolness they provide serves as a natural counter to sunny areas, creating a more comfortable environment. The sound of flowing water also adds a soothing element to your space.

Design Versatile Seating Areas

Consider using brightly colored lounge chairs or a stylish bench positioned near flowering plants for those in sunny seating areas to enjoy the warmth and sunshine during the cooler parts of the day. This space could be perfect for morning coffee or sunbathing in the afternoon.

Conversely, placing a comfortable outdoor sofa or a collection of rocking chairs beneath the canopy of trees or a pergola can create a serene retreat for those in shaded seating areas. Adding pillows and throws can make these spaces inviting for afternoon reading or evening gatherings with friends. Enjoy the vibrancy of sunlight and the bliss of shade by thoughtfully considering where you establish your sitting areas.

Consult an Architect for Additional Guidance

One of the characteristics of a skilled landscape architect is they will provide insight into the logistics of your ideas. They’re committed to satisfying clients but also have the expertise to understand what will and won’t work in your yard. You’ll get a high-quality backyard landscaping solution that provides the balance of shade and sunlight you desire.

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